The path from the bed to the bathroom is the part of the house that gets used most often, and it is the part that nobody lists. It is a few steps of carpet, a doorway, maybe a rug that curls at the edge, and a light switch that may be on the far wall. When the room is dark, that path is the whole job of the house for a while, and it fails in small ways that are easy to miss until the night they matter.
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Walk the route in the dark
Turn off every light in the house and walk the route the way the person in the bed will take it. Go slowly and notice what your hand reaches for. Note each switch, each cord along the baseboard, each rug edge, each threshold between rooms, and whether a chair or a commode or a bed rail sits in the line of travel. Then ask whether the first light switch can be reached from the bed at all. If it cannot, a plug-in light with a motion sensor or a lamp with a touch base may fit the space better than a wall switch across the room. Test whatever you choose in the dark, from the bed, before you rely on it.
Map every light on the route
Make a short list. For each fixture on the route, write the room, the bulb type printed on the base or the fixture, whether it runs on a wall switch, a dimmer, a pull chain, or a motion sensor, and whether it works today. Keep the list in the same drawer as the spare bulbs so the next person knows what to buy without climbing into a closet to read a package.
Stock and place the spares
Keep two of each bulb type used on the route in one drawer near the bed, not in the garage. Write the bulb type on the drawer or on the list. Decide who buys the next pack when the drawer is down to one, and write that name down too. A spare bulb that lives in another building is not a spare at two in the morning.
Batteries in motion lights and wall-tap lights
Motion lights and wall-tap lights run on batteries, and the batteries have their own schedule. Write the battery type on the device itself. Put the battery check on the same list as the other household alarms, so one person checks them on the same day each time. Ask the family member who owns the house which batteries the house already stocks, so a light does not go dark because a battery size was never bought.
Decide who climbs and who does not
Changing a bulb in a ceiling fixture means a stepladder, and a stepladder in the dark is not a job for a person who is already tired. Bulbs within reach of the floor can be changed by whoever is in the house. Ceiling fixtures, wiring, dimmers, and any fixture that flickers, buzzes, or runs warm belong to the homeowner or to a licensed electrician. If a hired helper is in the home, check the agency paper for what that person may change, and keep ladder work with the family. Ask the electrician plainly whether a problem is a bulb, a fixture, or a wiring question, and write the answer on the list.
Keep the cords off the path
A plug-in nightlight should go into its own wall outlet, not stacked on a power strip that also feeds equipment. Medical equipment cords should stay out of the walking line. Before you add any light to an outlet near the equipment, ask the equipment company which outlets and strips they permit, and keep the answer with the light list.
Name the owner of each part
Write one short line for each job: who walks the route and when, who replaces each bulb type, who buys the spares, who checks the batteries, and who calls the electrician. Choose a day of the week for the route walk and keep the same day. If a name is missing, the job is missing.
When the route is set, turn the lights off, sit on the edge of the bed, and try the path once, slowly, with the same steps the person will take. If the light does not come on where your hand expects it, fix that before the first night alone. If you need a name for a licensed electrician in west St. Louis County, Local Help for Hospice Families is the place to start.